Creating Your Life... - It's "As You Like It."
How do we love ourselves?

By creating appropriate boundaries, being love, and being what we truly are in every moment.
 Knowing that if we are not truly being our authentic selves, we are only denying the world the many unique gifts that we have to offer.
And by realizing that by stifling ourselves, we only deny others the bounty that is only ours to give.

Our society has unfortunately perpetuated the idea
that it is best to take care of everyone else first, and then ourselves if we have any energy left.

That simply isn't right! 

We must make sure our cups are full and we are taken care of first.  (Note that this doesn't mean to ignore others' needs, it it just a perspective shift from what many of us learned as children and young adults).  If we do not do what we should do for ourselves and attempt to save and rescue others instead, we will drain our own energy as well, and then need others to rescue us!  It can be a never-ending cycle.

I have an entire book on this topic, entitled:  Holding Space- A Guide to Supporting Others While Remembering to Take Care of Yourself First-
Published by All Things That Matter Press. 
Feel free to write for more information if you're interested!

For now, I felt that some quotes on being yourself would be the best use of the rest of this page... Enjoy!
"Live your truth, your whole truth, and nothing but your truth, so help you God." --Me :)
"Love yourself—accept yourself—forgive yourself—and be good to yourself, because without you the rest of us are without a source of many wonderful things.” - Leo F. Buscaglia
"Self-trust is the essence of heroism"--Emerson
“That which makes us DIFFERENT, will make a DIFFERENCE in the world some day. Be Yourself.” - Tom Krause
“To help yourself, you must be yourself. Be the best that you can be. When you make a mistake, learn from it, pick yourself up and move on.” - Dave Pelzer
"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting."  ~e.e. cummings
"God has given you one face, and you make yourself another."  ~William Shakespeare
"Most people are other people.  Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation."  ~Oscar Wilde
"The great majority of us are required to live a life of constant duplicity.  Your health is bound to be affected if, day after day, you say the opposite of what you feel, if you grovel before what you dislike, and rejoice at what brings you nothing but misfortune." ~Boris Pasternak
"It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. " ~e.e. cummings
"Learn to... be what you are, and learn to resign with a good grace all that you are not. " ~Henri Frederic Amiel
"I am much better employed from every point of view, when I live solely for my own satisfaction, than when I begin to worry about the world.  The world frightens me, and a frightened man is no good for anything."  ~George Gissing
"There is just one life for each of us:  our own."  ~Euripides
"Every time you don't follow your inner guidance, you feel a loss of energy, loss of power, a sense of spiritual deadness. " ~Shakti Gawain
"The most exhausting thing in life is being insincere. " ~Anne Morrow Lindbergh
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."  ~Dr. Seuss
"Men weary as much of not doing the things they want to do as of doing the things they do not want to do. " ~Eric Hoffer
"Is life not a hundred times too short for us to stifle ourselves. " ~Friedrich Nietzsche
"You were born an original.  Don't die a copy."  ~John Mason
"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not."  ~Andre Gide
"Always act like you're wearing an invisible crown. " ~Author Unknown
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